Best Wishes For A Happy New Year…And What’s In The Pipeline For 2008 [Video]
Emily joins me in sending along our sincere wishes for 2008 to be the best year for you ever. We’re looking forward to a great year ourselves, and you’re about to hear about some of what we have in...
View ArticleShe Thinks I Hung The Moon
And she’s absolutely correct. But it was nothing, really. And no false humility intended; all it took was a nail and one good whack from a hammer. Here it is: What you see to the left isn’t really the...
View ArticleClick With Him Is Now OFFICIALLY RELEASED!
Five months in the making, Click With Him has finally been released to the world…specifically, to every sharp woman out there who refuses to settle for mediocrity when it comes to online dating. And...
View ArticleHire Me As Your Dating Coach, Get Into A Top MBA Program
As you already know, our dating coaching style is VERY different. We talk about excellence a lot. Not just with women, but in life. That’s exactly what character-based attraction and seduction is all...
View ArticleBrad Howard’s Adonis Effect — Every REAL Advantage Is A GOOD Advantage
Have you seen this yet? There’s some buzz about it so you may have. Brad “Angel Eyes” Howard… author of more books and articles than anyone I know (except me)… including the popular Fat Loss Black...
View ArticleOne Dozen Top Dating And Seduction Resources For Men On The Net
Recently I did a video featuring all the cool resources on the Internet I could find for men when it comes to dating and seduction. For fun, I’ve decided to list the twelve best (outside of the wide...
View ArticleThe Top Ten Most Underrated Dating/Seduction Gurus
I believe it’s high time for there to be a list of the “unsung heroes” of men’s dating and seduction advice. After all, there are plenty of published lists of top PUAs and/or dating “gurus” that tend...
View ArticleOn A “Working Vacation” In Mexico
As many of you who get our newsletter already know, Emily and I are driving around Mexico this week. We’re visiting friends and family, knocking back a few cervezas, and generally enjoying the promise...
View ArticleTen Days In Mexico [Part One]
Welcome to the first of a multi-part series chronicling the hijinks, escapades and even life-shaking epiphanies experienced on our recent adventure driving into the heart of Mexico. Fair warning…this...
View ArticleTen Days In Mexico [Part Two]
Hanging out a mile or two from la frontera (the border) is one thing. Descending past about 30 miles into the “interior” of Mexico is something else completely. And I’m talking both figuratively and...
View ArticleTen Days In Mexico [Part Three]
No sooner than I had crossed the intersection I was compelled to slam on the brakes and throw the “Short Bus” into reverse. Honestly, I had simply proceeded forward from the stop sign normally, as...
View ArticleTen Days In Mexico [Part Four]
Emily’s uncle Manuel lives in the urban equivalent of the Batcave–or is that “Gruta De Murcielagos“? Either way, it’s impressive. All that’s visible from the city street (if Delicias classifies as a...
View ArticleTen Days In Mexico [Part Five]
We rolled into Monterrey, Nuevo Leon around 1:30 am. We didn’t get to sleep until 6:00. Wild partying? Hardly. It simply took that long to get a hotel. The first two places we checked were packed to...
View ArticleThe Team Has Been Expanded: Six New Instructors Named
I couldn’t be more pleased to bring you today’s major announcement. The X & Y Communications team has been expanded to include six new instructors. We have known for several months now that the...
View ArticleSexual Chocolate
Despite its provocative title, this post actually has nothing to do with the classic Eddie Murphy reference from Coming To America. Rather, there was a comment on the forum by Recce_God31 that I found...
View ArticleRelationship Management: The Leading Man
There’s no shortage of pickup training. In fact, it seems that just about every dating guru out there is puzzling over how to find a new twist on teaching it. Meanwhile, there is a vast emptiness when...
View ArticleThe Top Ten Places On Earth To Take A Woman
We’ve talked before about the importance of going on a “road trip” with someone you’ve met recently and think you might really like. I’m on record as seeing this as a valid test of compatibility. But...
View ArticleBe a Social Leader in One Easy Step
In my journey through pickup I’ve found this whole thing is more about learning social leadership than anything else. One thing we all have in common is we are leaders. If we weren’t leaders we would...
View ArticleTonight: X Factor Dating’s Singles Showcase
I’m pleased to announce that I am part of the X Factor Dating’s Singles Showcase for September. As a matter of fact, out of 21 dating experts they are going to be featuring this month, I get the honor...
View ArticleThundercat’s BootyCast
How’s it going everyone? Today I was Joseph “Thundercat” Matthews’ guest on his BootyCast podcast. Surprised? Well, don’t ever say I shy away from hardcore Seduction Community stuff because this is the...
View ArticleWhy I Wake Up Excited In The Morning
Having read the title of this post, I have a guess what you might be thinking. No, it’s not necessarily because Emily is in a frisky mood…again. At least that’s not what I’m referring to this time....
View ArticleGet The Deserve What You Want Toolbar!
I’m sure some of y’all have the Google toolbar, or maybe the Alexa toolbar on your browsers. They’re a great way to get what you want from the Web as quickly and easily as possible…without having to...
View ArticleNew Facebook Group: Get More Free Stuff
So are you getting sick of me sending you free stuff yet? Didn’t think so. So with that in mind, Emily and I have created a Facebook group. The name? “Free Stuff From X & Y Communications”. Pretty...
View ArticleEmily Is On Christian Carter’s Interview Series This Month
You’ve probably seen the banners on this blog for the past couple of weeks, but now that December is finally here it’s time for the official word: Yes…Emily is Christian Carter’s guest for his...
View ArticleTwiduction: How To Meet Women On Twitter [Free E-Book]
As you already know, we talk a lot about online dating around here. As a matter of fact, we sort of live and breathe it. We’re also sort of into social networking. Just a little bit. You can find us on...
View ArticleHow To Get 1000 Twitter Followers In 12 Days [Video Blog]
OK, today I’ve got something that’s clearly a change of pace. As you know, I’ve been harping on Twitter constantly lately. But that’s for good reason. This is not only the hottest social networking...
View ArticleWhy Follow Everyone Back On Twitter? [Video Blog]
It’s no secret that I personally follow just about everyone who follows me on Twitter. And that’s the way I like it. Nevertheless, I sometimes get a stray comment here and there to the effect of,...
View ArticleBroccoli Explosion: Cook For Your Date (The Vegetarian One)
Here’s the thing. Some of you have been hammering me for quite some time to blog some new Cook For Your Date material. Just not enough of you to get me to get off my butt and do anything about it....
View ArticleTwitter Lingo: The Insider’s Guide To The Language Of Twitter [Video Blog]
Lately we’ve been having a lot of fun on Twitter, which is pretty much the way it should be. One major way we’ve all been amusing ourselves is by inventing “Twitter Lingo”, or creative terms for...
View ArticleHow To Have More Fun On Twitter [Video Blog]
OK, so check it out. I realize that you’re probably thinking I must have a firm grasp of the obvious posting a video with a title like this. After all, shouldn’t everyone be having fun on Twitter...
View ArticleEmily Is A Calendar Girl…For Real
OK, the rumors are all true. And pardon me while I have a little fun with this post. By now you know about my “proof of concept”, @emilymckay. And you know we kind of like each other. That alone is...
View ArticleWhy The New Disney/Pixar Movie “Up” Rocks
Today I finally got around to seeing Up, the latest Disney/Pixar release. I have to admit that I knew next to nothing about the flick prior to actually checking it out, except that: 1) It was Pixar,...
View ArticleIt’s About Freakin’ Time: The Brand New DeserveWhatYouWant.com Site
If you haven’t had a chance to check out the BRAND NEW version of the main website, it has been live for a little more than 24 hours now. If you’ve visited the site in the past, I think you’re in for a...
View ArticlePics From The Video Shoot For The Man’s Approach
As you may already know, the new program for guys who want to approach and meet high quality women, attract them and make plans with them is called The Man’s Approach. Based on the tremendous amount of...
View ArticleThe Man’s Approach Is Now Available
Ask any guy what his #1 challenge is when it comes to women and he’ll tell you: It’s gathering up the courage to actually approach them and start conversations with them. Indeed, the issue is nothing...
View ArticleIt’s A Girl!
Sarah Victoria Annabelle McKay arrived on Monday, 12/19 at 9:50 pm CST. Both Emily and the baby are doing fine. Here’s a pic of her when she’s literally less than 5 minutes old. Here’s another when she...
View ArticleWomen Made Easy: What They Do, Why They Do It And How To Be A Man About It
Subject: A Dirty, Messy But Absolutely Thrilling Journey Into The Female Mind What if… you could rise above the frustrated, confused ranks of men all over the world who are convinced women are...
View ArticleSeducing Wild Alaska: The Truth About Male/Female Ratios Up There
We’ve been in Alaska for the past two weeks. For real. In fact, we just got back two nights ago and we’ve pretty much been catching up on sleep since. Now, you’ve probably noticed that like one out...
View ArticleMy 8 Favorite Female TV Characters Of All Time
First of all, some of you are going to roll your eyes and shake your head at this list. I’m actually looking forward to that, if for no other reason than it will prove the true point of this post (if...
View ArticleTindog: Straight Pimpin’, Canine Style
In a completely random move, one of my Ten-Plus guys sent me pictures of what looked like his Golden Retriever on Tinder. Upon closer inspection, the logo on the app said “Tindog”. Dude…what? It’s...
View ArticleAsian Women Vs. Beer Men And Traffic Lights
It’s already an established fact that I have this thing for Asian flight attendants. And it’s not even like I prefer Asian women in particular. It’s just that the flight attendants over there tend to...
View Article12 Wonders From The Past That Post-Modernity Has Stolen From Us
I was a high school kid in the early ‘80s when the term “digital” gained traction in the public headspace. I specifically remember the very moment I learned what the term meant relative to the analog...
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